when trans people go "i am a woman, attraction to me is gay for women" or "please don't rule me out of the dating pool for male attracted people just bc i am not cis" what cis people hear is "in order to acknowledge this persons gender, i must feel attraction to them" and when they don't feel attraction, they go "well i won't acknowledge their gender then". to reiterate an ancient fucking point in the queer community; we don't choose who we feel physical attraction to

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**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 27, 2020, 12:00

**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 27, 2020, 12:00

May 27, 2020, 12:00

zigg @zigg@queer.garden

"Tell us something we don't know, ya hippie"

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**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 27, 2020, 11:46

**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 27, 2020, 11:46

May 27, 2020, 11:46

zigg @zigg@queer.garden

Cute, cute, cute.

You’re all cute. None of you are free from cute.

(The people were like “yep that’s right” at the doctrine.)

**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 27, 2020, 11:43

**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 27, 2020, 11:43

May 27, 2020, 11:43

zigg @zigg@queer.garden

Happy #Wenbiesday, and may this all end soon so I can have colorful walls for backdrops again. 😅 (#selfie, eye contact, )

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**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 26, 2020, 10:42

**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 26, 2020, 10:42

May 26, 2020, 10:42

zigg @zigg@queer.garden

It’s Xenoblade re-re-release week. 😁#NintendoSwitch

**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 26, 2020, 10:37

**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 26, 2020, 10:37

May 26, 2020, 10:37

zigg @zigg@queer.garden

Didn’t sleep terribly well last night. Also back to (remote) work today, so.

I wish I could use the office, even if it there were just a couple other people there 20’ apart or so.

**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 26, 2020, 01:52

**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 26, 2020, 01:52

May 26, 2020, 01:52

zigg @zigg@queer.garden

video game screenshot

Don't mess with Wisp. #AnimalCrossing #ACNH #NintendoSwitch

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**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 25, 2020, 21:42

**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 25, 2020, 21:42

May 25, 2020, 21:42

zigg @zigg@queer.garden

So I reported two members of my family on Facebook as hacked, and it turns out no, they were just messaging and forwarding content with a permanently attached, awkwardly worded plea to share

**zigg** · May 25, 2020, 20:06

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**mathilde** @mthld@rage.love · May 25, 2020, 20:06

May 25, 2020, 20:06

mathilde @mthld@rage.love

good night. 🌙

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**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 25, 2020, 14:26

**zigg** @zigg@queer.garden · May 25, 2020, 14:26

May 25, 2020, 14:26

zigg @zigg@queer.garden

Watching Avenue Q this morning. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vWEskfjMBCg

**zigg** · May 24, 2020, 17:46

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**Lexi** @lexi@anticapitalist.party · May 24, 2020, 17:46

May 24, 2020, 17:46

Lexi @lexi@anticapitalist.party

Toxic ableism

I keep reading things like «In times of crisis you see who your true friends are». That is toxic and wrong.

Your real friends may be the ones that really need your help right now but can't find the courage or the energy to ask for it. So they don't say anything.

In times of crisis you can only tell which people are willing and able to give, and for everyone else you don't know, they might need you.

So if you can, go be a friend, and maybe make new great friends. People need it.