zigg @zigg@queer.garden

I recorded the poem from this thread https://mastodonten.de/@AzureKingfisher/103495369611511454 and would be grateful to be heard. I'm not so happy with my accent and overly self conscious with my voice but here you are, this is me:

Follow Friday
Realization Saturday
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Chilling and thinking about how today I was extraordinarily bisexual.

@zigg

I guess that makes my gender the Kwisatz Haderach? 😆

There were several waypoints on my Gender Journey™ where I asked myself, “are, you, in fact, a woman?” and it was always a black-or-white question, a crossroads, a choice and I could never answer it conclusively.

I could really see the sun rise over the horizon on that journey when I realized that I didn’t have to choose. I could be wherever I wanted to be, in many places at once, and that was not only okay, but it was exactly the right thing for me.

thank you duckduckgo for this helpful juxtaposition of opinions on the issue

Comforting myself with https://purrli.com/ I recommend you do the same

proposing a new gender diagram

@zigg oh yeah, this is hella relateable; i've asked myself 'are you a woman' and 'are you a man' and felt like i was standing in a crossroads where i had to commit one way or another, but then i realized, yo, i can inch my way a couple steps down one path and see how that feels, i can turn around and go back another way, i can knock over the signpost and roll in the grass next to the path, i can get on a hot air balloon and launch myself into orbit, etc

the two-choice path is a trap

@zigg Today's #TheirsDay, friend 👍👍

and there is orb