Hi I’m Zoë, gardener and keep at queer.garden (a tiny Mastodon instance). I’m a non-binary lady from the Netherlands who’s figuring out where to go next in life.

During work hours I make sure my company’s application can be used by everyone—specialising in accessibility.

In my spare time I love to cycle and take photographs. Some of which you can admire every morning when I send a good morning toot into the world.

Hope to see your beautiful face around the fediverse.

**Public Universal Friend** @moiety@queer.garden · Dec 09, 2019, 16:40

**Public Universal Friend** @moiety@queer.garden · Dec 09, 2019, 16:40

Dec 09, 2019, 16:40

Public Universal Friend @moiety@queer.garden

Created this thing to get myself organised. Now high on magic marker fumes.

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**Public Universal Friend** · Nov 30, 2019, 23:21

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**proudnb** @proudnb@todon.nl · Nov 30, 2019, 23:21

Nov 30, 2019, 23:21

proudnb @proudnb@todon.nl

Being nonbinary doesn't have to complicated.

You're not required to have a precise label, certain style, or to have figured it out at a specific time. You don't have to wait to use the label "nonbinary," and you don't have to keep it forever.

These are rules created by cishets and repeated by those who want their approval. All those and similar rules are best forgotten.

If you feel like "nonbinary" fits you, then you are correct to use it.

#genderquestioning #nonbinary #lgbtq #nonbinarypositivity

**Public Universal Friend** @moiety@queer.garden · Dec 09, 2019, 12:09

**Public Universal Friend** @moiety@queer.garden · Dec 09, 2019, 12:09

Dec 09, 2019, 12:09

Public Universal Friend @moiety@queer.garden

Gender of the day is:

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**Public Universal Friend** @moiety@queer.garden · Dec 09, 2019, 11:46

**Public Universal Friend** @moiety@queer.garden · Dec 09, 2019, 11:46

Dec 09, 2019, 11:46

Public Universal Friend @moiety@queer.garden

You’re perfect this way 💜.

**Public Universal Friend** · Dec 08, 2019, 16:30

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**Sin Vega** @sinvega@mastodon.social · Dec 08, 2019, 16:30

Dec 08, 2019, 16:30

Sin Vega @sinvega@mastodon.social

@moiety read receipts are cops

**Public Universal Friend** · Dec 08, 2019, 16:28

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**Public Universal Friend** @moiety@queer.garden · Dec 08, 2019, 16:28

Dec 08, 2019, 16:28

Public Universal Friend @moiety@queer.garden

You know what I really miss? People not expecting you to reply within five minutes.

**Public Universal Friend** @moiety@queer.garden · Dec 08, 2019, 17:05

**Public Universal Friend** @moiety@queer.garden · Dec 08, 2019, 17:05

Dec 08, 2019, 17:05

Public Universal Friend @moiety@queer.garden

@Juju did you ever get to watch Captain Marvel?

**Public Universal Friend** · Aug 05, 2019, 09:22

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**Public Universal Friend** @moiety@queer.garden · Aug 05, 2019, 09:22

Aug 05, 2019, 09:22

Public Universal Friend @moiety@queer.garden

Queer people be like, this flood ain’t stopping me from being fabulous.

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**Public Universal Friend** @moiety@queer.garden · Dec 08, 2019, 16:28

**Public Universal Friend** @moiety@queer.garden · Dec 08, 2019, 16:28

Dec 08, 2019, 16:28

Public Universal Friend @moiety@queer.garden

You know what I really miss? People not expecting you to reply within five minutes.

**Public Universal Friend** · Dec 08, 2019, 01:57

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**🍤El Presidenite🍤** @denikombucha@playvicious.social · Dec 08, 2019, 01:57

Dec 08, 2019, 01:57

🍤El Presidenite🍤 @denikombucha@playvicious.social

White people do NOT have a monopoly on disability.

White people do NOT have a monopoly on being Queer.

White people do NOT have a monopoly on poverty.

White people do NOT have a monopoly on mental illness.

Your identity intersecting with marginalization does not absolve you of the access whiteness grants you. If your version of activism isn’t lead by the bottom tier of your marginalization then it’s just self interest.

**Public Universal Friend** · Dec 07, 2019, 23:29

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**siege in the city** @mxsiege@octodon.social · Dec 07, 2019, 23:29

Dec 07, 2019, 23:29

siege in the city @mxsiege@octodon.social

wondering if learning how to cry from a biomechanical position (learning how to make your body cry without use of emotion), can be helpful as an exercise for people who have trouble letting out emotion due to past trauma.