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introduction, mention of kink 

... well, hello. :heart_trans: :heart_pride: :heart_nb: :heart_bi:

I am Juni, your friendly fat queer old hag from next door. I am a transfeminine enby, a bit of a bore, journalist by trade, I live in what germans call a big city, and I want to outsleep (or, depending on my mood, overthrow) capitalism and install fully automated luxury gay space communism with extra-well appointed darkrooms.

Also, I like chocolate and flowers.

You have to mean business when dealing with racist people and their collaborators.

They are ruthless. Match that energy.

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sex 

So, real talk - which concepts *are* there one would like to see illustrated in a sex positive symbol?

enthusiasm, informed consent (= enthusiastic informed consent), respect, curiosity, care(fulness), rapture/ecstasy, satisfaction come to mind

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I feel like stepping into mined territory here (but I do not know why actually), so please, please forgive me if I do - 

Is there a known pride flag or other symbol for strong sex positivity - the kind of positivity that might or might not look to other people like a kind of overemphasis on sex? :boost_requested:

In Berlin there is a crowdfunding project for a sex worker owned escort agency collective, so they can work fully on their own terms
indiegogo.com/projects/a-worke

sex 

So, real talk - which concepts *are* there one would like to see illustrated in a sex positive symbol?

enthusiasm, informed consent (= enthusiastic informed consent), respect, curiosity, care(fulness), rapture/ecstasy, satisfaction come to mind

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Asserting dominance at the end of phone calls by only saying "bye!" once, in a normal pitch, and then putting the phone down.

Bottom surgery, neovaginas 

Hey there babes. So, I recently got my lower gender confirmation surgery in July, and because I have a shallow depth, my physical recovery has been a lot quicker than some folks.

Moreover, I didn’t realize there was an in-between option for bottom surgery. I knew about full depth, and vulvaplasty or no-depth. But shallow depth was never offered until I asked if it was possible. And I feel like that’s a huge oversight because other trans femmes I know want to know how I got it.

I’m a lesbian who isn’t into penetration, so I didn’t have any use for a full depth vagina. I know a lot of folks like me who probably feel the same, and I think it’s important to let people this option exists.

Yesterday, after my dilations, I decided I was going to, very gently, explore with my finger a bit. No play, just feel about. My dilators are the size of fat carrots so a finger isn’t a big deal. And it was cool. Found the end, felt a couple sutures still in there.

But the most incredibly affirming thing was realizing my whole index finger fit inside. Not only did the space feel warm, and like a part of me, but I’m actually a lot deeper than the dilators make it seem, because they’re fucking huge.

A finger or two inside is all I’ve ever wanted. And now I can have that, and it feels like it was always meant to. I don’t have shame and confusion around that part of me anymore. It’s finally fixed.

It was a huge euphoria moment and I just wanted to share it with y’all.

💙💖🤍💖💙

sex stuff 

On the other hand: There *is* a concept like Ace pride. And there are phenomenons like slut shaming.

And of course - you might have guessed it,*I* would carry that flag.

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sex stuff 

I have been pondering this for a while now. My question might be hot garbage for several reasons, one of them being the somewhat doubtful and probably nonexistent definition of a "more than normal" (and therefore: a "normal") amount of human sex drive.

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Yes, this is what is behind my weird polls concerning colours and concepts last week.

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I feel like stepping into mined territory here (but I do not know why actually), so please, please forgive me if I do - 

Is there a known pride flag or other symbol for strong sex positivity - the kind of positivity that might or might not look to other people like a kind of overemphasis on sex? :boost_requested:

so uh, where do people recommend getting binders these days?

boost okay

Anyone know any brands that make thigh high boots that will fit people who have larger thighs? And actually stay up would also be cool but I can always fix a silicone strip to the tops

Or, as I like to put it: Every day is pride day. Happy Another Completely Normal Day Of A Queer Life, fellow queers.

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on sexual identity, a bit sarcastic 

It's September 24th, also known as Celebrating Is Over, Now Back To Being Completely Mundane And Ordinary Bisexuals For Another Year Day

We should start accusing every film with a male protagonist of having an agenda.

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