by the way, there's no "wrong" way to be non-binary. you're valid being masc-presenting and you're valid being femme-presenting and i know not having a clear map to your identity and presentation can be hard sometimes but we're all here learning together and we're all here to remind you that there are no rules, no right and wrong, just some great folks figuring how how they wanna define themselves
@gentlerdarknesses heck, there is not even a right way to be binary-gender. Be good to yourself and others, and to hell with anyone telling you how to gender right.
@gentlerdarknesses This helps.
I'm so afraid starting hormone therapy cause I want to be femme but not overly so. And I get anxious when I think that I have to be 100% one way or the other.
I'm hoping for a comfortable middle ground, and I gotta keep reminding myself that's okay even if it's confusing to other people.